My husband o, @pretyprexy
I mean it's just reflex action when you see someone disrespect your parent, especially if it is physical, you'll feel like exploding and just want to kill that person. But because the "honor your husband" setting is on, I will just give him a slap.
I've engaged in physical combat with my male cousin when he was fighting my mum. I mean physical fight, and insulting her. Imagine a guy my age doing that. And I think I had just entered uni or maybe about to complete sec school. So picture the age.
I was mad! I was ready for borof us to just kill awa sefs that night.
On a serious note now, respect is reciprocal. If you can't respect my father, an elderly man, then at that moment he doesn't earn or deserve mine.