The first heart break I ever had was by my best friend(female) and after a year of not talking to each other which I was determined to never relate with her again even with the intervention of families and other close friends, she called me to tell me about a good new’s and subsequently she will call and that’s how we came back to be friends again. She is the only person that have stayed faithful for over 10years after the first incident. I have had other friends and this is how I know they are fake.
When they don’t celebrate with you when you are happy
When your enemies are their friends
When they belittle your dreams
When they talk down your accomplishments
When they are always taking from you but never always having what to give back and this does not mean material things. Good advice, encouragement ,fighting your battles with you, giving you a shoulder to lean on when you need one, never withholding the truth even though it hurt, praying for and with you. If you are all of this for the people around you and they are not, be very careful. Good Friends celebrate each other and they do it with the whole of their heart. They are the first to scream when you are doing well, they will cry when you are crying and you will know.
Also, they are people who are of this good attributes and more but still leave and you are wondering why? Sometimes, nothing actually went wrong,it just that their time in your life is over. Pray about it and let God grant you peace. I have had people who are good leave my life,those I am good to leave too without a fight and what I do is tell them, if this makes you happy,i am happy too but always know that I am always here. I will go and pray about it and I have peace about it.
Always pray for the people in your life. Have a good mind about them. God knows how to fish the wrong ones out for you and you won’t feel bad about it. You will know it is God. You will always know.
However, I have learned not to hold on to people so much and not expect them to leave. I try to Love everyone around me with the love of Christ or whatever they believe in.