I am 23 turning 24 by December, the last relationship I had was 2 years ago and i had to end it cause of some reasons like he didn’t listen, his philosophies were quite different from mine. After the break up, I intended not to go into any relationship instead I would use that period to discover more about myself and God.
Fast forward to 2016, I met this guy that was so all over me and he said he was ready for marriage. He barely knew me but he was like he has taken time to observe me and all; however this wasn’t enough for me. He has been so nice and caring, i mean financially. He just wanted to cater for all my needs even without asking, he has done so much.
The issue is that I’m not attracted to him in anyway; I feel he is way older than me. He is about 38. Many things he does turn me off apart from his kind gestures of course. I have told him I’m not interested in a relationship with him severally but he still finds a way to come back. I met a woman who is quite spiritual and she said she had a vision from God telling me not to miss my husband because of my high standard. These made me try to adjust to be more accommodating but no, still feeling the same way. He feels so in love, introducing me to all his friends as his “woman”. I don’t really feel comfortable about it sha. I feel he is too pressured to get married quick and all that.
What I really need to know is;
Can this affection still come later in life? Does manners and age difference matter in marriage?