Did you know about PPD?


#1

It is neither a political party nor acronym for some social media hashtag . Its about our dear woman who could be a mother soon or is already a new mother.
Have you come across PPD or seen the signs? Well, either ways, this is an opportunity to know more about PPD.
Postpartum Depression(PPD) also known as postnatal depression is a mood disorder that is associated with women after childbirth. Mothers with postpartum depression experience feelings of extreme sadness, anxiety, and exhaustion that might interfere with a woman’s ability to care for the child, for herself or her family. About 15-20% of new mothers have this illness.
Although the exact cause of PPD is unclear, the cause is believed to be a combination of physical and emotional factors. Postpartum depression does not occur because of something a mother does or does not do.
After childbirth, the levels of hormones (estrogen and progesterone) in a woman’s body quickly drop. This leads to chemical changes in her brain that may trigger mood swings. In addition, many mothers are unable to get the rest they need to fully recover from giving birth. Constant sleep deprivation can lead to physical discomfort and exhaustion, which can contribute to the symptoms of postpartum depression.

Here are possible indicators to PPD

  1. You feel overwhelmed. Not like “hey, this new mom thing is hard.” More like “I can’t do this and I’m never going to be able to do this.” You feel like you just can’t handle being a mother. In fact, you may be wondering whether you should have become a mother in the first place.
  2. You feel guilty because you believe you should be handling new motherhood better than this. You feel like your baby deserves better. You worry whether your baby can tell that you feel so bad, or that you are crying so much, or that you don’t feel the happiness or connection that you thought you would. You may wonder whether your baby would be better off without you.
  3. You don’t feel bonded to your baby. You’re not having that mythical mommy bliss that you see on TV or read about in magazines. Not everyone with postpartum depression feels this way, but many do.
  4. You can’t understand why this is happening. You are very confused and scared.
  5. You feel irritated or angry. You have no patience. Everything annoys you. You feel resentment toward your baby, or your partner, or your friends who don’t have babies. You feel out-of-control rage.
  6. You feel nothing. Emptiness and numbness. You are just going through the motions.
  7. You feel sadness to the depths of your soul. You can’t stop crying, even when there’s no real reason to be crying.
  8. You feel hopeless, like this situation will never ever get better. You feel weak and defective, like a failure.
  9. You can’t bring yourself to eat, or perhaps the only thing that makes you feel better is eating.
  10. You can’t sleep when the baby sleeps, nor can you sleep at any other time. Or maybe you can fall asleep, but you wake up in the middle of the night and can’t go back to sleep no matter how tired you are. Or maybe all you can do is sleep and you can’t seem to stay awake to get the most basic things done. Whichever it is, your sleeping is completely screwed up and it’s not just because you have a newborn.
  11. You can’t concentrate. You can’t focus. You can’t think of the words you want to say. You can’t remember what you were supposed to do. You can’t make a decision. You feel like you’re in a fog.
  12. You feel disconnected. You feel strangely apart from everyone for some reason, like there’s an invisible wall between you and the rest of the world.
  13. Maybe you’re doing everything right. You are exercising. You are taking your vitamins. You have a healthy spirituality. You do yoga. You’re thinking “Why can’t I just get over this?” You feel like you should be able to snap out of it, but you can’t.
  14. You might be having thoughts of running away and leaving your family behind. Or you’ve thought of driving off the road, or taking too many pills, or finding some other way to end this misery.
  15. You know something is wrong. You may not know you have a perinatal mood or anxiety disorder, but you know the way you are feeling is NOT right. You think you’ve “gone crazy.”
  16. You are afraid that this is your new reality and that you’ve lost the “old you” forever.
  17. You are afraid that if you reach out for help people will judge you. Or that your baby will be taken away.
    If you are having these, it is possible that you are experiencing PPD and you don’t have to be scared as this is treatable.
    BABY BLUES
    occur in most women in the days right after childbirth and it is considered normal. A new mother has sudden mood swings, such as feeling very happy and then feeling very sad. Hence, this term is used to describe the feelings of worry, unhappiness, and fatigue that many women experience after having a baby. Babies require a lot of care, so it’s normal for mothers to be worried about, or tired from, providing that care.
    While this is more common and can be experienced by 80% of mothers, its effect is short-lived(lasts about a week or two) and SHOULD NOT be mistaken for PPD.
    How can PPD be treated?
    Two effective methods are known for arresting PPD. They are
    1. Counseling or talking therapy method
    2. Medication where by drugs are used.

For further reading, you can visit these links:
postpartum

wikipedia

psycom

nimh


#2

I have read and heard of this too and its very common too just that most mothers ignore it… I read a story of how a mother almost killed her child because of this mental illness and another shared her story of her she left the kids with her mum and ran away to another state for a while… So its really a big deal i think mothers should pay attention to especially their husands…


#3

yea… Its not just the mothers’ issue. It touches everybody in the family. we need to be enlightened.