I have heard numerous stories about men that have beaten their wives even to death and after discussing this wahala with a friend I thought to share my two cents on the issue.
You see, I believe that domestic abuse doesn’t happen “by accident.” These things are premeditated. The violent husband might conceive his or her behaviour as a ‘loss of control’, but this same guy, unsurprisingly, would not lose control in this way with a boss or his friends. So how come his loss of control is activated when he is with is wife.
Dear ladies, before you marry someone you should keep an eye for the warning signals. Its not by how long you date him. Just learn his attitude. He may not beat you but you can surely notice the violent tendencies within.
I heard one story about a lady defending her man by saying “he beats me to bring out the best in me”. I have also heard about people that have makeup sex after such battery.
What are your opinions and what signals should a lady watch out for in a relationship?
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