Not sorry to say bro...Are you in this generation?
These can only work for people with LSD. If you are hyper-sexual, you'll understand that none of the rules you stated above will stop you from shagging in your car (not necessarily in bed), you don't even have to kiss her before stuff happens.
The ultimate way to curb your sexual urges is to be resolute not to be a loose cannon.
Talking to 'sensible' people who have had it all (sex-wise) will also help you because you'll get first-hand testimonies of the dangers of having too many sexual partners. Trust me, if you've had too many sexual partners, you most likely will have issues being faithful to one person, you'll find it hard to even truly love that special person (when you eventually find them) if you don't put in serious extra effort.
Have in mind that if you follow your sexual urges, you might not be lucky to avoid contracting STIs and STDs. Take it from me, you most likely will get tempted to try unprotected sex with some chic that will land you in serious trouble. Sometimes, you might even start off with a condom but when 'the thing begin sweet you', you might pull off your condom and consciously walk into trouble. You don't wanna mess up your sexual life before it even starts. Think of it in 30yrs from now
Wanking off your shit/masturbation NEVER helps in the long run because you'll end up abusing it.
Have your life goals written clearly somewhere, daily remind yourself of the life you intend building for yourself and your family (when you eventually have one) and tenaciously pursue it. Trust me, having clear cut vision about your life and assiduously pursuing it will help you forget about your konji a lot of times.
Lastly, constantly pray to God for help (as in per second billing kinda help).
That's my one cent. Hope it helps the anonymous brother.