(NSFW) - How to Have Sex


#1

Welcome to SexEd.

This thread for gaining insight into the safest and most enjoyable ways to please your partner.

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#2

Basic Definitions:

Sexual Intercourse
Sexual contact between individuals involving penetration, especially the insertion of a man’s erect penis into a woman’s vagina, typically culminating in orgasm and the ejaculation of semen. E:g: I want to have sexual intercourse with you.

Foreplay
Sexual activity that precedes intercourse. E.g: “she enjoyed flirting and foreplay”

Vagina (Pussy)
The muscular tube leading from the external genitals to the cervix of the uterus in women and most female mammals.

Penis (Dick)
The male genital organ of higher vertebrates, carrying the duct for the transfer of sperm during copulation. In humans and most other mammals it consists largely of erectile tissue and is used also for urination.


#3

This looks like your hand writing @NaijaLander :grin:


#4

haha! I wish I was this articulate.


#5

call me, i’ve missed you :grin:


#6

I will.


#7

i’ll be waiting


#8

Who are those allowed to have sex?

From a religious perspective, only legally married adults (over the age of 21) are allowed to participate in sexual intercourse, however, having sex outside of these constraints is not uncommon. Pre-marital sex is quite acceptable.

What about consent ?
Consent means to give permission or to agree. It is very important that both people give consent to have sex before they have sex.

What is the legal age of consent?
The law states that you must be 21 to consent to (or agree to) have sexual intercourse. The age of consent is the same for males and females. It is the same for homosexual and heterosexual sex.


#9

Why is consent important ?

Sex is an activity between 2 or more consenting adults. In a case where one of the adults involved does not give his or her consent, it could be considered sexual assault. Sex is enjoyed when all parties are interested in it and are actively involved in it.


#10

What counts as Foreplay ?

Foreplay is every activity that prepares your partner for eventual penetration. Some people say that sex begins and ends with foreplay, I inclined to agree.

Foreplay is where the deed is done. The seeds of a woman’s orgasm is sowed during foreplay. Very few women (and some men) are able to ejaculate (climax, orgasm) without extensive foreplay.

Let us examine different foreplay techniques :point_down:t6:


#11

I agree.


#12

Foreplay Techniques:

Nibbling Earlobes

Ears can be an erogenous zone for a lot of people, men and women alike. Gently biting the top of the ear or nibbling the earlobe can feel really good. If he or she is nibbling on your ear, it might mean that he or she thinks it feels good, too.


#13

Sucking and biting someone’s neck:

Kissing your partner’s neck can be a cute way to show your affection, or it can be a sexy move that initiates foreplay and leads to something more. You can kiss your partner’s neck in a variety of places and can even mix things up with licking and biting if the mood calls for it.

Steps - Preparing

  • Stroke your partner’s neck with your fingers. Lightly stroke your partner’s neck with the tips of your fingers. This will begin to turn on your partner and may even make her shiver with pleasure. Stroke the area that you plan to kiss and your partner will feel even more pleasure when you kiss her there.

  • Use your body as you kiss your partner’s neck. Don’t just stand apart from your partner and lean in to kiss her neck. Instead, wrap your arms around her if you’re facing her, or wrap your arms around her from behind if you’re kissing her from behind.

Neck Kissing

  • Kiss your partner’s neck with an opened mouth. Slowly open your mouth in between kisses, and begin to kiss your partner’s neck with an open mouth, separating your lips as you gently kiss her skin. You can also move up and down your partner’s neck to add some variety.

  • Breathe some hot air on your partner’s neck in between kisses. This will drive your partner crazy with pleasure.

  • If you’re really getting into it, lick your partner’s neck from the bottom to the top. Use only the tip of your tongue and be very gentle. Make sure your partner is enjoying this sensation. Do not do this if it’s your first time kissing this person. Confirm it with them first if you’re interested, but only do this if you’ve kissed their neck before or you have some experience with it. This goes for blowing air or using your tongue, and especially for biting and sucking. If it’s your very first time, just stick with open and closed mouth kisses. Do this so that you and your partner can discuss anything else that the two of you would be interested in doing.


#14

Licking and sucking nipples

The nipples are also erogenous zones. Females nipples stand erect when a woman is turned on, erect nipples is a green light. For men, it varies. I personally do not like my nipples being sucked but some guys do. It is important to understand your partner’s sexual preference, that way, you know your limits.

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To suck his or her nipples better, see the nipple as a lolly pop and lick away! Don’t forget gentle bites some people like harder bites, but most people prefer gentle bites.


#15

French Kissing:

What makes a French kiss different from a regular kiss is that it involves more tongue and more passion. Whether it’s the first time or the 100th, French kissing is something that, ideally, should leave your partner feeling weak in the knees. From figuring out the right amount of tongue to use to remembering to breathe, there’s a lot that goes into how to French kiss. In general, the more confident and relaxed you are, the better. So if you’re doubting your make out skills, chill. French kissing is an art, and you can always improve your technique.


#16

Nibbo… is my ear crackers to nibble?


#17

Someone has to be careful oh so you don’t bite the neck off.(Damon/stefan salvatore style)


#18

Lesson children fall in


#19

You’re saying careful huh, mean sey you like bitey bitey, well I ain’t into biting romance Biko nu, it is not how we used to do. :grinning:


#20

Who told you I like bitey bitey?