I write to you with a heavy heart and a disturbed mind. I am a 32 year old lady working in a bank and he is 38 years. I have known my man for 12 good years when I was in the final year of secondary school. We started of as family friends and he was very fond of me so he always helped me in many ways.
When we lost our father, he took up the responsibilities of taking care of my education, and welfare. In fact he extended his kind gesture to my family by helping with our financial needs.
It all began when my boyfriend was arrested for drug possession 3 years ago. He was sentenced to 12 years in prison. You can imagine how hurt and sad I was when I found out.
For 3 years now I have been going in and out of Prison visiting him and assuring him that, I am still here for him. I love him very much because this man has been my savior and angel.
After 3 years of my boyfriend in prison, a man from where I work has expressed love to me and wanting to marry me. He is a very nice single man in one of the top positions in the bank. I have known him for the 4 years I have been working at the bank.
He has intensified his wanting to marry me. I like him a lot, but not in love with him. My family members have started pressuring me to accept his proposal and move on with my life. They want me to let go of my boyfriend in jail!
They think 12 years is an imprisonment for me if I have to wait for him. In the beginning I thought it was a joke because this is a man who practically took our family as his and helped us through our trials. I really love this man but everyone keeps telling me that waiting for him is a bad decision I have made. The pressure is too much now. I feel like I am being ungrateful
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