@Farida_Adamu I know you know what you want. But wait a minute!
Let me break it down to ABC
Traditional marriage is getting the blessings of your parent locally and they getting the respect they deserve.
White marriage (i don't know why they call it white) is getting the blessings of your Pastor, Parents on a globally and getting a legal document to back that which is accepted at the registry.
Court marriage can't be done without your parents consent. Just your friends and some representatives that can stand for you.
Hey! just choose what you want... Its not a SIN if you fall in any of the category above.
But i advice have a wedding based on your Faith (believe system).