I feel there are no rules to these things.
Anything that works for you and your spouse. She can cook, she just doesn’t like to…
It’s no biggie , she might decide to pay the chef or whoever will be taken care of the dishes. Case settled. Communication and Understanding is key.
There are months I attend to the meals all through, there are months I don’t cook anything.
It doesn’t mean I don’t know how to. I am just on break or would rather eat someone else’s cooking.
Cos really what is this “wife material” struggle for? The man that will cheat will cheat…the one that will misbehave … will misbehave…Basically.
By the way, I am a sucker for men that cook though. I find it extremely sexy.